Let’s Support Others In Their Simple-Life Journey!

by Tammy Taylor~

 

My latest article submitted to Mother Earth News about 6 easy ways to live a more Zero-Waste life was posted online, then they shared on their FB page recently – How exciting! (if you haven’t read the article yet you can read it here) Most of the comments from their Facebook share were helpful and positive but there were some snarky ones too about how some of these tips were nothing new. But it got me to thinking – unless you’re talking about solar panels or new technology, almost NONE of our environmentally-friendly living steps these days are new! Not everyone can afford to install high-tech equipment on their home to live simply, but almost anyone can take easy daily steps in their own home to move along that simple path – and it costs little or nothing!

SUPPORT OTHERS ON THE SIMPLICITY PATH! Remember we're all in different places in our lives, let's support each other in our path to living simply! #TaylorMadeHomestead

Heck our grandmothers or great grandmothers did it for years.  They didn’t call it environmentally-friendly living, it was just called ‘LIVING‘ back then!  Disposable plates back in the 40’s? No.  Paper towels? Probably not. Heck even grocery stores didn’t commonly dot neighborhoods until the 1950’s or so, most families had huge gardens & preserved the excess to feed their families!  Back in the day, grandma cooked every meal from scratch usually using what was growing in the garden at the time as a basis for that meal.  Eating locally and seasonally was just the way it was done back then. 

Is Providing For Ourselves Too Hard?

But fast forward to the current time period where lives are rushed and the current-day advertising moguls – in an effort to make more money for themselves – have convinced us that doing for ourselves is just too hard or complicated, that we DESERVE the convenience. And let’s be honest, some folks really DO need convenience items – we’re all in different places in our lives and that new mom may be overwhelmed with washing dishes or fabric diapers. And the point is, THAT’S OK! Not everyone has the ability or even wants to spin their own wool or milk their own cow.  Whatever steps they make toward living a simpler life is what works best for them and their family.  It’s not really us against them – we’re all responsible for doing what’s best for our own families, right??

Let’s Support Each Other!

I think so many people feel self righteous that they’ve been on their simple living journey for a while, forgetting they too had to start at the bottom.  Although the piece I wrote was meant to inspire those wanting to live a more Zero-Waste Life by starting with a few easy baby steps, I worry that they might feel defeated before they even begin by reading the snarky comments of others. And the internet apparently makes you feel comfortable saying things to people you’d certainly never say in person… aaaaahhhh the empowerment they must feel in their anonymity… Wouldn’t the world be a beautiful place if we’d celebrate accomplishments of others instead of thumbing our noses & saying “I do more!” (smh)

But here’s the important part of the message that I hope is clear: Please, when you’re reading someone’s thoughts – especially those encouraging others to take even just a tiny baby step – please remember that we’re all in different places in our journey. Don’t belittle the effort to start down the path to living simply.  Sure, as a veteran environmental soldier what’s brand new information & encouragement to someone else may be old hat to you, but remember you had to start from ground zero at one time as well. So let’s encourage others wherever they might be in their own simple-life journey!

(turns off light & removes soapbox from center stage…)

~TMH~

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29 thoughts on “Let’s Support Others In Their Simple-Life Journey!

  1. Mimi

    Yes, yes YES. Couldn’t agree more Tammy. Thanks for sharing at Five Star Frou-Frou this week. I hope you’ll join us again? Love, Mimi xxx

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  2. daisy

    Amen to that! Don’t let ’em get ya down. Those who have been reading your posts for a while understand that we all have to start somewhere-and aren’t you wonderful for sharing your experiences to help us get there. Rock on, sister homesteader!

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  3. Tracy @ Our Simple Homestead

    I couldn’t agree with you more. I find as a blogger my readers think they can’t start homesteading because they don’t fit into a specific box like everyone else. We all need encouraged every step of the way, and you are right…not all of us can afford expensive solar panels or 10 acres. But what we all can do celebrate little milestones like learning to cook from scratch or installing a clothesline. Anything we can do to pass on some of those lost skills to others is priceless. Thanks for sharing on the Our Simple Homestead Blog Hop! http://oursimplelife-sc.com/simple-homestead-blog-hop-35/

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    1. Taylor-Made Homestead Post author

      Yes, exactly Tracy! Especially us bloggers – we need to be encouraging of others stepping tentatively onto this simple living path. We also need to be mindful of what we write on others posts such as this Mother Earth News FB share. I’m assuming here that the naysayer was not a blogger, but I’d hope the bloggers would step in and counter his dimmed view for the newbies to see… ~TMH~

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  4. Patti

    Tammy, I was listening to the radio on my way home and they talked about another recession that will be much worse than what we just went through. Your article was great and even if it helps just a few people prepare themselves for harder times it was well worth it. So much of what my generation learned has been lost. I’m so glad that I taught my boys to be self sufficient, they learned at a very young age how to make do with what we had. Baby steps!! Too many people have their panties in a wad these days, oh well such is life! Patti

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    1. Taylor-Made Homestead Post author

      Good for you Patti for equipping your children with what they need to be self sufficient. You’re right, so much of what previous generations (or even our own) learned is being lost. I became enamored with the simple life by watching my grandmother when I was a very young adult – way before it was the environmental thing to do. But I know some aspects of that simplicity were pushed aside as I was raising my children and consumed with the corporate world, while other parts of the simple life were nurtured along. Now as an empty nester I’ve picked up where I’d left off and I’m strolling down the simple life path more vigorously again because I love it, but again – we’re all in different places on that path. I’m thrilled to see what I perceive as being a resurgence in interest in self sufficiency and that is so exciting to me. But we’re not all on the same place in that path of simplicity – some are just starting out and deciding for themselves what parts fit their own family. It’s not ‘us against them’, we should all support each other on that path. ~TMH~

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    1. Taylor-Made Homestead Post author

      You’ve just got to shake your head sometimes and wonder why, huh Robin? Why even bother, other than to try to make yourself look better and more put together than others. But that often backfires – people can see behind your snarky comments! ~TMH~

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  5. Vicki Green

    So unfortunate that some people leave snarky comments. Everyone starts their journey in life in their own unique place. Some people are raised on a farm and learn a lot during their childhood about being self-sufficient and growing their own food. Others grow up in the city where they don’t even have a sunny window to grow houseplants. Every article we write sharing knowledge that we’ve learned is helpful to somebody who is at different place along the path.

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  6. Carla

    THANK YOU! Hubby and I both dearly want to shrink our carbon footprint, and become ‘real’ homesteaders – but, we’re also both disabled, and quite frankly, sometimes, we’re lucky to get to the grocery store and back, much less get the stuff put away, once we get home. We have a dream, but I am going to need a couple of surgeries, before I’ll even be able to take on the responsibility of a house, instead of living in an apartment, where someone else takes care of all the big maintenance jobs. But, we do what we can. We only keep a few convenience foods handy, for days when neither of us is physically able to cook real food – but we cook from scratch about 80% of the time. I make my own hair & skin products, use a ‘cup’, instead of other feminine hygiene products, & we reuse everything we possibly can. In fact, I was given a stack of old tshirts – most of which, we’ll never wear, and I use them for all kinds of things – right now, one is being employed as a sling, to support my arm, that doesn’t currently want to stay in it’s shoulder socket! Yet, I often feel as if we’re just frauds, because of how much we do often have to rely on canned foods from the store, instead of home-canned, or using paper plates, when we can barely get dinner made, much less deal with the post-meal clean up. I’m not a newbie to homesteading – I used to be quite self sufficient, but these old work injuries of mine (shoulder) & our health issues have robbed us of that. (hubby has had 5 heart attacks, and isn’t bouncing back, like we all though he would – very frustrating, for him! I have severe fibromyalgia, advanced arthritis in my knees, & we both have pulmonary issues.) Anyway, thank you for a) your compassion & defense, and b) the reminder to me, that **I** need to maybe cut myself a little slack, sometimes, too.

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    1. Katrina B.

      Carla, Do what you can when you can and the rest of the time take it easy on yourself. At your worst times you are doing more than the majority of people. What you save a year in personal care products is great, be proud of yourself. I wish you much wellness and healing. Trina

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      1. Taylor-Made Homestead Post author

        (claps wildly) YES! Carla I hope you take all of these supportive comments to heart. ~TMH~

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    2. Patti

      Carla, you hang in there girl! It will get better, faith has a way of carrying us through those hard times! Get a pair of scissors and cut that rope you’re trying to tie yourself up with. You’re doing a heck of a lot more than most people in your situation. Sending hugs of encouragement your way!! Patti

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    3. Taylor-Made Homestead Post author

      OMGoodness Carla, while your comment makes me smile in several places, it also causes my heart to break over how you sometimes consider yourself a ‘fraud’. As I mentioned earlier, not everyone has access to (or even WANTS to) spin their own wool or milk their own cow. Oh sure there are some homesteaders out there that do and while it works for them, offering them satisfaction and fulfillment, it doesn’t work for others in their own simple life path. You have found that balance where you are right now, doing what’s important to you when you can and enjoying the convenience that this life offers when you need it – and there’s nothing wrong with that! I applaud you for your simple-living mindset, it’s that thinking outside of the box moxxy that makes a REAL homesteader, and you’ve got that in spades girl! ~TMH~

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  7. Ellen Davis

    Thank you! I totally agree…those kind of people are rude and have forgotten the treat others as you want to be treated.

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    1. Taylor-Made Homestead Post author

      Trying to make themselves feel good about being further down the path than those just starting out I think is a big part of it Ellen. But reading some of their comments doesn’t make me admire them for being further ahead than others, it makes me shake my head at their pettiness. So you’ve got to wonder what they’re really getting out of their comments int he first place. (SMH) I’ll encourage as many people as I can to peek tentatively down that simple-living path and take those first baby steps if possible, applauding wildly and cheering them along every step of the way! ~TMH~

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  8. Greg Hill

    It’s Simple for sure weather you are on the internet or in person. The people you meet and work with on a day to day basis deserve respect and above all love. For this is where it all starts. Having the gift of encouragement is a powerful tool, lifting up those who sorround you weather online or in person can change lives for the better. Working together, sharing ,caring , and above all giving your time to make this world better for others will only make your life better. The real treasures of this earth is not the wealth you hold but the friends that sorround you. I am blessed to call you my friend even though I still don’t know you name. Thanks for sharing your heart TMH. You are appreciated.

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    1. Taylor-Made Homestead Post author

      Greg, when you say: “Having the gift of encouragement is a powerful tool, lifting up those who sorround you weather online or in person can change lives for the better” – I couldn’t have said it better myself. Encouragement toward another is such an easy thing to do and if we’d all just take that one simple step to encourage another, wouldn’t this be a beautiful world indeed? Easy, helpful and costs nothing! Thank you for sharing your sweet comment! ~TMH~

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  9. Jessica [Havok]

    I think people tend to forget that the Internet is still social interaction, and you shouldn’t say something that you wouldn’t say outloud to another person. While, granted, there are more than enough mean people out in the real world, it would certainly help people be more aware of the junk they are saying online! Your post over at Mother Earth News is obviously not full of steps for the tried and true, but for those trying to get their feet in the water. Any time a post title involves “easy” in my mind, it means “for those that have never done this before” and that is normally what the post equates to! I also agree with you in that it’s not us versus them – it’s not anybody versus anybody! Don’t let some mean-spirited people who wrote without thinking of what they were saying get you down!

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    1. Taylor-Made Homestead Post author

      Jessica, thank you for your thoughtful comment. I agree with all you said and while I know as a blogger I’m not going to be able to please everyone it does shock me sometimes what people write – perhaps to attempt to be funny, perhaps to attempt to make themselves look better. I took the comments with a grain of salt of course but worry about those that are just starting their journey and what they might have thought when they read them. Would they be ridiculed for being so new on their own path? Are they not doing enough? Should they have started earlier? NONE of that is true, and I support all who decide to stroll down this path for doing what’s right for them and their family, not what some nameless snarky commenter says… ~TMH~

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  10. Julia

    Amen! Thank you for thinking of us who are just starting on this journey. We glean a lot of valuable information from you and others that are willing to help ….not critize or laugh at our attempts and questions.

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    1. Taylor-Made Homestead Post author

      I think you’ll find that most homesteaders or simple-living folks are very eager to uphold and encourage others, Julia. I know the readers and commenters of this blog (and our FB page) have been amazing, supportive and helpful – and that’s by far been my experience in dealing with other pages as well. ~TMH~

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